A beautiful and comforting read. I am finally understand that it is the every day work that matters too, and not putting off enjoying life while waiting on a yes either. I was feeling despondent today, like giving up, but reading your words have perked me up - thank you!
Kate, first let me say how much I love your writing. I bought your first two books, and am looking forward to the third (I love ghosts!). This lonely road is both full of wonder and desperation, and for those brave enough to travel it, I believe the satisfaction of having traveled is its own reward. There are many who will criticize and praise liberally, and when the praise comes, it feels great! But the rubies are the words themselves, placed, one after the other, to mark our journey. I'm so glad my post helped you, as you are an inspiration to me every week. Wishing you wonder-filled writing!
Ah, I love the image of words as rubies! How true. When I write something that feels 'right' I feel a glowing warmth and peace that the quick dopamine hit of praise can't equal.
I'm very grateful that you enjoy my books, thank you!
I love this line: “It’s the every day work, the process of becoming, the reaching that matters.” It’s so important to remember this. No matter what happens with your story, at least you can be proud of yourself. And I hope you’ll publish it another way to share with us 😊
As for liminal spaces, I’m in one myself. Half of my belongings are boxed up in preparation for a move, but nothing can be done until the house sells. So I have one foot in the present, and one in the future, and waiting is definitely an unsettled feeling. I’m trying to use this limbo as a time to focus on my well being and appreciate the calm before the storm. I’m also having fun creating new things, so maybe you could start on another story while you’re waiting to hear something? Wishing you lots of luck!
Daisy Anne, Thanks so much for your comment! I hope your move happens soon. Waiting is so tough. I feel your pain, as I was in a similar position about five years ago. There are so many emotions around moving: excitement, loss, frustration, renewal, etc., so I wish you well! Re: writing and waiting: I just finished something new, but will be returning to the other story to finish up the rewrite. Balancing on the edge of those emotions: excitement, frustration, renewal, and of course fear of the unknown has been a challenge, so I'm trying to ignore it all and focus on the work. Creating new things--even if it's a simple craft--really takes the edge off, so thank you for that suggestion! Good luck with your move!
A beautiful and comforting read. I am finally understand that it is the every day work that matters too, and not putting off enjoying life while waiting on a yes either. I was feeling despondent today, like giving up, but reading your words have perked me up - thank you!
Kate, first let me say how much I love your writing. I bought your first two books, and am looking forward to the third (I love ghosts!). This lonely road is both full of wonder and desperation, and for those brave enough to travel it, I believe the satisfaction of having traveled is its own reward. There are many who will criticize and praise liberally, and when the praise comes, it feels great! But the rubies are the words themselves, placed, one after the other, to mark our journey. I'm so glad my post helped you, as you are an inspiration to me every week. Wishing you wonder-filled writing!
Ah, I love the image of words as rubies! How true. When I write something that feels 'right' I feel a glowing warmth and peace that the quick dopamine hit of praise can't equal.
I'm very grateful that you enjoy my books, thank you!
So true. And this is evident in your words, and that's what's so intoxicating. :)
I love this line: “It’s the every day work, the process of becoming, the reaching that matters.” It’s so important to remember this. No matter what happens with your story, at least you can be proud of yourself. And I hope you’ll publish it another way to share with us 😊
As for liminal spaces, I’m in one myself. Half of my belongings are boxed up in preparation for a move, but nothing can be done until the house sells. So I have one foot in the present, and one in the future, and waiting is definitely an unsettled feeling. I’m trying to use this limbo as a time to focus on my well being and appreciate the calm before the storm. I’m also having fun creating new things, so maybe you could start on another story while you’re waiting to hear something? Wishing you lots of luck!
Daisy Anne, Thanks so much for your comment! I hope your move happens soon. Waiting is so tough. I feel your pain, as I was in a similar position about five years ago. There are so many emotions around moving: excitement, loss, frustration, renewal, etc., so I wish you well! Re: writing and waiting: I just finished something new, but will be returning to the other story to finish up the rewrite. Balancing on the edge of those emotions: excitement, frustration, renewal, and of course fear of the unknown has been a challenge, so I'm trying to ignore it all and focus on the work. Creating new things--even if it's a simple craft--really takes the edge off, so thank you for that suggestion! Good luck with your move!